Monday, February 18, 2013

Adventures In Homeschooling: Feb 2013

We were off and running full speed in our homeschooling adventures.  We may have been moving and having to transition but we didn't let that stop us from learning!
 
February was a big month for our homeschooling adventures!
It was our second month.. and the kids were starting to get used to the schedule - even liking it and not complaining! (Thank you Jesus!)
 

 
We had packed away some books that we really weren't able to read.. until now!  What a joy it is to see your children be able to read a book without help - and Blaze is now reading chapter books!! 


 
Someone sent me this picture and I had it blown up and then posted it above my desk.  Sometimes we really need a reminder about just how important our job is as a mother.  Some days I get up and wonder why I chose homeschooling or why I chose to stay at home with these children since the day they were born.  There are days that I question my abilities as a teacher, a chef, a maid, a nurse, a mentor, and everything else we as mothers have to be.  But then, something little for most happens like my son scrapes his knee or one of them learns to read a word they never have before, or they get a 100 on their paper and the excitement in their eyes leaves them happy the rest of the day, and I realize that this is what I was made for.  This is what is best for my children.  Nobody is going to love them nor educate them better than me. I wholeheartedly believe that choosing homeschooling was the right thing for my family and I still stand behind that now.  The proof is in the pudding!
 



 
This month, Landon Ace Jackson, has learned short and long vowel sounds completely.  This was one thing he seemed to struggle with in school.  We have done research on bullying as he was bullied while at his former school.  He has learned about Jesus and shown interest in the bible so we have started reading it every night as well.  He has mastered addition and subtraction and we are starting multiplication.  We are working on cause and effect and he seems to grasp the idea, but needs more work to really master this.  His grades has been very good for the most part and he is now an honor roll student.  He has done exceptionally well with his behavior, sitting still, not talking while I am talking, and following simple and complex directions.  He found his interest in the weather so we worked on things such as tornadoes, rain, clouds, and the sun.  We have also been graphing the differences of the moon.  He loves homeschooling and seems to mention not going back to public school at least once a week! 



 
This month, Colton Blaze Jackson, has learned more about synonyms and anonyms. He has learned more about cause and effect and also differences of opinion.  He dove right in to the bible and seemed the most interested in the new testament especially Revelations.  His favorite thing to do during our homeschool time is tutor his brother.  Ace says that Blaze is his second favorite teacher - behind mom of course!  We have continued his learning about the life cycles of plants and animals like what he was learning at public school before he left.  He had already planned on doing a science experiment and had already turned in his syllabus so we decided to go ahead and finish it as well!  We did our experiment on which Nissan vehicle gets the best gas mileage!  I may let Blaze do a future guest post on this blog to talk about what he learned - and what this means for his future!  We picked right back up on long division and multiplication and we finished up learning the multiplication tables through 12.  He started reading chapter books and also the bible every night.  His favorite thing to do at night is read to his little brother, Ace, and this seems to help both of them with their reading and comprehension skills.  Blaze has done wonderfully in homeschool so far and is also now an honor roll student!  Way to go Blazey!! 


 
We were trying to find some fun ideas for snack time and something that the kids would find creative but also could grab on their own and we found these adorable butterfly snacks (pictured above).  We made 28 so that each child would have one snack bag per day for 2 weeks.  When they are at "school", they are allowed one snack and one lunch.  Sometimes if we get into something deep enough where we go over our time, I will choose to grab a quick snack or play a movie pertaining to what we learn during dinner.  DJ (their father for those who do not know) has also jumped into homeschooling!  He is now doing their physical education and jumping into History when we find something of interest to all of us!  He was so skeptical at first about the whole homeschool process (post on that to come) so to see him come around has made me so happy!  I think, in time, everyone of my family and friends who first thought homeschool was wrong or weird will join the bandwagon of homeschool lovers and see why I pushed and believed so much in this process!



So, As I finish this post I had to post the picture above.  Two years ago when I first even thought of homeschooling, I had a severe misconception of what it was all about - and now I am finding out that many who have not seen it firsthand or have not done their research believe these lies as well.  I have seen teachers, family members, friends, etc. not believe that this is what is in the best interest for my children.  They do not believe in the homeschool process or that a child can learn as much at home as they can in public school.  I feel that cannot be farther from the truth!  But, this picture tells the story of what society thinks of homeschooling and how it effects everyone along the way.  Our neighbors think its weird that their kids are at school and our kids are not.  They ask what reason our kids are sometimes out playing before school is out or how they learn in a short time frame each day.  Well, first of all we are not outside just playing, we are actually learning.  Everything is a learning process when you are in homeschool.  Even our grocery store trips become a learning experience!  As for the short time frame,  I teach two kids instead of thirty and that leaves alot of time to learn without it taking a full 6 hour school day.  We still learn at least 3.5 hours each day, but many days we end up discussing things or finding interesting things on the internet and some days, we are 8 hours in and realize we are way over time!  Today's society seems to think that we are either hillbillies or crazy religious, that we make our own clothes and soap, and that we do not use technology or watch television.  This could not be further from the truth!  I do not believe that I have to do it all to be successful as a mother, wife, or homeschool teacher, and we use alot of technology to learn different things at different times.  Don't be so quick to judge just because we took our kids out of public school,  Look at some of the horrible things going on in today's schools and you will see why! I can tell you firsthand that the public school system still does not support parents who choose to remove their children from their schools.  I have seen this in our situation on more that one occasion.  They seem to think that they are better equipped to teach my children than I am and I will tell you, that is a huge misconception on the school's part.  As a mother who has been home with her children since the day they were born, nobody knows them or their way of thinking better than me!  And then there are your friends and family who think you are crazy or that you are making a big mistake!  I had family members tell me I was being lazy, that I was making a poor decision, and even so far as that they wanted to call the school board and report me because my kids deserved an education!  Well, Yes, I cannot agree with that enough, but what I disagree with is how they are to be educated.  In my first post I discussed the straw that broke the camel's back for our family but it is happening all over the world.  I can say two words to help you understand one main reason my childen are at home today - Sandy Hook!  When your children are terrified of school or have to walk beside an armed officer to get into the building, this leads the children to feel unsafe and therefore prohibits them from learning to the best of their ability anyway!  My kids belong with and to me and I am teaching them to the best of my ability with the help of our wonderful umbrella school.  I believe in this process and I look forward to continuing this for years to come. 
 
I truly hope that this blog sheds light and opens more minds to the possibility that if I can do it, anyone can do it.  I am here to help and to answer questions for anyone who is thinking about homeschooling and what is best for their family.  I believe this is right and nobody so far has been able to persuade me otherwise.  Thank you so much for coming here and reading my blog and helping me to make my homeschooling dreams come true!  

Friday, February 8, 2013

A Quick Update!

I started this blog in hopes to blog every single day for a whole year of what life is like as a newly homeschooling mom with no homeschool experience, however, quickly I realized just how hard that would be... and then we made a quick move, my stuff was in two storage buildings, and the boys were already burnt out on it all so that's when it hit me... this is what homeschool is all about.  The fact that we had to give ourselves a week in which we called Spring Break so that we could move and get settled is OKAY.  I know what is best for my children, not a school that barely knows them by name.  I saw my kids learning other things like random kindness, work ethic, and organization tips they can use for life.  I have seen Ace, my wonderful first grader, learn how to read in leaps and bounds! For a child that was previously labeled "less than" and put in special classes, he sure seems to be doing just fine at home!  The boys were responsible for keeping up with and packing their items including their classroom and homework stuff and make sure that it got to our new place.  Now that we are all settled in, I'm hoping that we can get right back into everything.  Some things I have decided since our move -

  1. I will take breaks throughout the year when the kids are burnt out to give me time to adjust my curriculum and also to keep the boys working and having fun at the same time.  This is their life and I want them to enjoy it.
  2. I will not be taking the summer off like originally planned.  My children seem to best learn when we do not take a substantial amount of time off.  Hopefully, in the next few years, we will be able to get on a normal public school routine, but for now, I will do whatever I can to ensure my children are learning to the best of their ability even if that means giving up my Summer or even more of my time.  Being a homeschool mother means giving up a lot of your freedom, but you are giving an incredible gift to your children and it will help ensure they have a better future!
  3. I am good at homeschooling and I am proud of myself!! All of my planning, preparation, and research have truly paid off!

Homeschooling 101: Internet Resources


Below is a list of some of the sites that I have used or are currently using to further help my homeschool experience.  I am 100% on my own with the curriculum and I prefer it that way for now.  In the future, I may choose to do a program, but that just isn't in my budget right now.  So, for those of you who homeschool or want to, here are some great sites that will help you for free!

http://www.superteacherworksheets.com/

http://www.teach-nology.com/worksheets/

http://busyteacher.org/

http://www.theteacherscorner.net/
http://www.schoolexpress.com/
http://www.abcteach.com/

http://pinterest.com/kiboomu/teacher-worksheets/

http://www.softschools.com/

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Homeschooling Is The New Normal!

To Whom It May Concern,

For years, I have done extensive research on homeschooling and what it would mean for my family.  We heavily weighed the pros and cons and many nights I tossed and turned thinking of any and all what ifs possible.  Would my kids still get a good education? Would I be able to give up all of my free days and time to teach my children? Can I keep up with housework and chores - and homeschool to the best of my ability? Is it right for us? Can we afford it? Is homeschool really better than public school? Will my children get enough social activity? Will people think we are weird or question my reasoning?  Trust me, I pondered it all.  Once I finally came to the realization in 2011 that I wanted to begin the homeschool process,  I knew not a single soul who chose this path nor did I know enough about it to even know where to start.  I put it off and put it off knowing that it would be a battle, especially with my family - especially my husband.  It wasn't until I sat in front of a TV listening to the news of the world today that I decided I had to do something.  There were children being murdered, shootings in every city, chaos all over the world.  People were not allowed to pray or bring bibles to school, faith became something nobody had much less proclaimed, and bullying was at an all time high.  I knew what I had to do.  So, I sat for three weeks and did nothing but digging about my options.  I got all of my stuff together and presented it to my husband in a way he just could not say no.  The statistics speak for themselves - homeschooled children seem to be all around more successful than those in public school settings.  Some of the world's most successful people had been homeschooled by a parent.  More parents each day were choosing this lifestyle and for the first time in decades, homeschool was growing in leaps and bounds. 

Two weeks later, my husband finally caved and said okay.  We made the decision that next year would be our year to pull them out and start them at home.  I had every intention of allowing my kids to continue their education via the local school system.  Then, the worst thing possible happened...

On December 14, 2012, Adam Lanza, 20, fatally shot twenty children and six adult staff members in a mass murder at Sandy Hook Elementary School in the village of Sandy Hook in Newtown, Connecticut.  It left every single person in the world feeling empty, but for me, it made me feel like I had to make a decision.  That day as I sat and listened to people over and over crying in sadness and speaking out in fear I thought of what my life would be like if it happened at my children's school.  I thought about how many of those parents may have sat and thought about homeschooling their children and how those parents must have had huge regrets in their heart over making the decision not to.  My children were almost out for Christmas break so I decided to send them back and then make the change over Christmas break if possible.  We were in the middle of a move and I was dealing with some health issues, but I pushed myself to figure out a plan.  As my children got off the bus and ran up the hill, my eyes filled with tears.  I don't think I have ever hugged my kids that tight and they knew about my concerns because the children at school and on the bus had been discussing the shooting every single day after it occurred.  Both children began to ask questions and make comments that little boys should not have to say or worry about.  They began to question their safety and their life.  Death became a huge topic in our home and it only got worse.  Sometimes, the boys would wake up in the middle of the night with horrible nightmares or get up and come into our bed because they didn't want to be alone.  The last straw came one morning when my husband went to drop off the kids at school, just as he always did, and there stood an armed officer at each entrance surrounded by kids and parents that looked curious and sometimes even fearful.  Our children began to scream, especially my youngest son, and he refused to get out of the car.  My husband pulled over into the parking lot and demanded that they both get out - but they simply refused.

I think everyone in their life when faced with a tough decision has that moment where they realize exactly what choice it is they should make.  My husband got the boys out and hugged them then put them back in the van, buckled them in, and brought them back home.  I was used to hearing him come back in and I went to greet him only to find my sons standing in the doorway also.  They didn't have to say anything for me to just know - public school was no longer the place of safety and peace that my children went to and enjoyed each day.  It was now the place in which they felt scared, worried, and unsafe.  They truly wanted to be at home.  I wasn't going to ever send them back and I felt like it was the a judgement call that I have never once looked back and regretted.  I knew that I was still not sure of what school or how to get there or what to do, but I knew I had to learn.  So, I spent all of our stashed away money in our safe on lockers, curriculum, and school supplies and started a homeschool on a strict budget.  Thankfully, I then found D1 and they seemed to fit our need, but either way, they weren't going back. 

Looking back I feel that had Sandy Hook not happened, we may have been able to wait, but we couldn't hide the scary fact that it did happen and it could happen anywhere, even the wonderful small town loving school that my kids once loved to be a part of. 

Since that day, I have done my very best to ensure that my kids get the best education possible while at home with their mother.  From the week that I found out I was pregnant with my son at the young age of 19, my decisions have been solely those that my whole family would benefit from.  Other than going to school and obtaining a degree in Nursing, I chose to never work outside of our home.  I instead made it my life duty to educate my children at home and be a good housewife and mother.  I gave up my free time, my social life, my tanning sessions, and my freedom to better the lives of my children.  Those close to me that felt I was making the wrong decision voiced their opinion loud and clear.  They were truly ignorant to what homeschool is like today and felt that I was making a bad decision.  One by one they started coming around.  They heard the boys reading in leaps and bounds.  They saw the kids feeling safe and loved.  They noticed the hard work and effort that I put into giving them a place inside the comfort of our home.  Sure, some of them still to this day do not agree or understand, but I am not here to please anyone.  I am a mother on a mission to give my children the best education possible - all while them being safe.  I will not debate whether it was the right decision for everyone because I am not everyone's mother.  I am Blaze and Ace's mom and I did what was best for them.  This is something I have never once looked back and regretted.  My only regret is that I didn't do this much sooner. 

At the end of the day, this is my job and I take it very seriously.  If I never do anything else with my life, this is what I was asked by God to do and I do it with pride.  I believe in my children, I believe in myself, and I believe in the homeschooling process.  I believe in our umbrella school, I believe in my choices, and I believe in my family.  We are blessed and thankful to have this chance and we will never take it for granted. 

Sincerely,
Ashley Jackson

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Scheduling and Curriculum

I wanted to do a seperate post just on my schedule and the curriculum I have chosen.  I am new to the blogging process when it comes to education.  I have had a personal blog for years, but this is completely different.  I want to share my journey and help other people and I also want to be able to look back and see all the great things my children have done and learned.  This first post still will not be as detailed as I will do in the future.  I will try to highlight some of my favorite books and curriculum so that some of you can make the decision as to whether or not you will use it also.  I may choose to do a Friday post every week about a different book or just use a week to highlight different things I'm using and loving.

  I am hoping that this blog shows other moms that homeschool life is not as scary as it appears at first.  I feared every single thing about being a homeschooler and that my children's education rested solely on my shoulders, but now, for the first time, I feel so confident in the teacher that I am becoming and the choices that I am making and I know all of you out there following this blog, will feel the same way, just give it time.




This is all of the stuff that I have purchased within the last week.  I am trying to do homeschooling on a budget but I am finding that to be a struggle.  I never realized how much stuff teachers have to have just to keep everything going.  I have found some great deals at Books A Million but for the most part I am trying to either swap for free or buy used.  Hopefully I can get a group of moms local that I can try to trade off items so that we stay under budget.  I am also doing some babysitting on the side on some days to try to counter the money that is being spent because we have to stick to a budget.


I went to a local book store called Mr.K's Books in downtown Oak Ridge and I got a great deal on some older books.  I have been reading the book below when I have some down time.  It has given me some good ideas, but I am learning that I just have to do what's best for us and not what everyone else does for them. 


For good behavior, I have chosen to do Incentive charts and "Free" Days.  Once they have filled up one chart with stickers, they get a prize from a prize box.  I have gotten toys mainly from the Dollar Tree and most of them are educational such as puzzles or coloring books.  I also added crayons, markers, and pencils because the kids seem to really enjoy getting new supplies also. Once they have both incentive charts filled with stickers (see below), they can turn it in for a "free" day of no work.  The ways that they receive stickers are -  Random Acts of Kindness, being good a full school day, completing homework and turning it in on time, making an A on a paper, or exhibiting good behavior while outside of the home.

 For bad behavior, we chose time out, sentence writing, paper erasing, and losing free time.  Time out normally last 7 minutes per child in a corner during the time that we are doing something fun such as art or recess.  Sentence writing seems to be the thing they dislike the most.  I normally have the sentence either contain spelling words or something from the bible.  Paper erasing is an idea I got from a local FB page.  You find papers that you would like to reuse that have pencil writing and you make the child sit and erase all the writing.  Normally I do five pages per time, but since I just started, I don't have much to be able to use this as often.  In the future, I hope to have something better than all of this because the children are really outgrowing time out. 



And now to our schedule:

Monday:  9am to 2pm
Tuesday:  9am to 2pm
Wednesday:  9am to 3pm
Thursday:  Noon to 4pm
Friday:  9am to 5pm (outside of home)

Curriculum:

Monday:  Science, Critical Thinking, and Lapbooks
Tuesday: English, Handwriting, and Reading
Wednesday: Math, Spelling, and Review
Thursday: History, SS, PE, and Health
Friday: Field Trips, Library, and Make Up Work



Monday, January 14, 2013

Our First Week Of Adventures!

Our first week went very, very well.  The kids were quiet and followed the rules pretty well.  Due to the local schools being closed for weather, we still didn't get a chance to tell our friends good-bye or let the school know we wouldn't be coming back.  I have emailed both teachers and made things clear, but we still must do the formal paperwork to make things legal.  This is all going on while we are packing and attempting to move into our new home... let's just say hectic but blessed and move on!


We found some "locker blocks" at Walmart on clearance for $4 and I felt it would be the easiest and most organized way to keep their stuff together and make them be accountable for their own books.  I used name tags I got from the Dollar Tree and attached them to the top of the locker.  I also found some blankets on clearance for $2 and decided to allow the boys to buy one and put in their locker for days they are cold or maybe don't feel as well.  Both of my kids are blanket boys and need something to cuddle some days.  My school, my rules.  I will be bringing my blanket as well :)


I struggled to figure out how to incorporate our lunch time within our required hours because we are on a tight schedule.  I will post more about that in the next post.  I do five hours of homeschooling a day so that we do not have to do actual work on Friday's and can focus on our field trips or Library trips.  This may not work for some people and some days we will have to rearrange, but for now, that is what works for us.  The boys have decided they want to watch movies during lunch time and I think eating in the classroom and staying focused will be better than allowing them to go eat in the kitchen and then try to come back to class.  This way if I have a video for that day, they will still be working on something educational and if not, I have alot of videos that I want them to watch about bullies, religion, sports, etc..


I found a tornado maker at Rite Aid on clearance for $3 and it even came with a Storm Chasers video so we chose to work on that this week.  The maker is so awesome!  It has real sounds and you can turn it to different sizes and it looks so real.  You can even


Our first week turned out to be so much fun!  I loved the light I saw in my children's eyes as they began to realize that the world is their classroom and we don't have to put limits on what we can learn about!  I look forward to doing this for many many more days to come! :)


Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Welcome!

Welcome To Our Homeschool Blog! My name is Ashley and this is my first time homeschooling.  I cannot believe how easy it was to get started, but I got lost in all the different designs, curriculum, and suggestions.  I had to just take a step back and see what was best for my family.  I know there are so many people out there, especially stay at home moms, who wish they had someone to talk to about the ins and outs about getting started.

This blog is in no way, shape, or form supposed to tell you how to homeschool or what is right for your family.  Only you will know that!  This will just tell you the good, bad, and ugly of my experience with it in the first year.  We are getting started mid-year due to school and health issues and just not wanting to wait any longer.  If possible, I recommend you start at the first of the year.  Some places will give you discounts if you pay and register before summer is over.

We are going through Daniel One Academy in Cookeville, Tennessee.  This was recommended to me by a dear friend.  They have different types of curriculum or you can do all of the homeschool planning on your own (which I what I felt was best for us).  They have a website at www.d1academy.org if you want to check them out. 

I did not purchase a curriculum and instead, I have just put together work of my own.  I am getting free worksheets from different places and putting them together accordingly.  I have purchased a few books used from the East Tennessee Homeschool group on FB and also new but discounted books at Books A Million.  That is enough to get me started for now. 

As I am posting this, we are starting our first day.  I still have many things to do including paying all my fees and formally withdrawing the kids from school, but I wanted to get started on the blog as soon as  I could.  I will try to share all the moments with you all so you have something to go by.  I will be back later to talk about our first day and how the school responded. 

Thanks For Reading! The World Is Our ClassRoom!!